When you are a part of this (or any) community in any way, shape, or form, making a bold statement will create discord. The way you handle what follows is what shows your followers what you’re really about. So, it goes without saying if you revert to slut shaming as an insult, you’re in the wrong.
If you want to get technical about everything, I guess we could go back to the very beginning of anyone’s problem with whoever they have a problem with…but I don’t want to talk about the past so much as I want to talk about the present (and the future).
Let’s talk about black-and-white, grey or polka-dot, what’s wrong and what’s right…the thing is there isn’t just “one way” to practice Female Domination. Things change over time, people’s definition of what’s good and bad has changed over time, “morals as don’t pay the bills“, so what is the problem here?
All of us are carving our own niche, who says your way is best?
The problem is, people can’t let go of a misogynistic patriarchy belief that Women are supposed to behave a certain way. If women would’ve behaved a certain way, none of us would have the freedoms that we do now: none of us would be able to vote (among MANY other things). I won’t apologize because I don’t see any reason to step back and except less than what we are worth.
Really, it’s hard enough being able to depend on other women without the cattiness and destructive behavior that you see everywhere; You want to make this a competition now? A question of Morals? Maybe even Loyalty?
Each and every person has a different way of approaching life. Therefore, if all parties involved maintain consent to what is going on, it’s really none of your business (or My business) what they choose to do. You are not the kink police, you are not the fetish police, you are responsible for you. No one else. Not a single soul.
What you decide to do with your life is your decision. Do everyone a favor and drop the condescending “there’s only one way to do this” mentality. Changes were never made by the people doing the same thing over and over again: “All great truths begin as blasphemies.”
Evolution is necessary for progress. Fetishes evolve, people evolve, things change and we adapt.
Is it so difficult to imagine another way of accomplishing the same thing?
1 + 6 = 7
4 + 3 = 7
2 + 5 = 7
You see what I’m trying to explain here?
Great! Now, get the fuck over yourselves.
Squash the Drama.
Talk to Each Other.